Dorothy was a hoot!
I met her at a women’s retreat. She was wearing a beautiful cobalt blue blouse while she told me about her grandchildren.
When I complimented her on her blouse, she said, “Well, my hair color changed this month and I had to find something to wear that would match it. I usually use different hair colors, but this month I ran out of all of them. So, I just mixed what was left of everything I had. Now my hair color changes every day!”
And then…she laughed. And shook her beautiful blue locks of hair.
Dorothy’s joy came through all weekend. She was a ray of sunshine. And a barrel of fun.
And here’s the deal …
Her life hasn’t always been a bed of roses. She’s like you. Like me. We’ve had moments that were good, not-so-good, and You’ve got to be kidding me!
And yet …
She’s watching for – and creating – great moments.
She’s looking for the joy and giggles, not just waiting for them to show up.
What a way to live, right?
Oh, let’s do that too. Even on our really, over-the-top busy days, let’s squeeze out some fun. Find time to smile. Breathe deeply. See the humor. Take our mind on a “That was a fun time!” memory journey. Even if it’s just a moment.
Dorothy reminded me to watch for the happy. And if I don’t see it in front of me, I’m going to create it.
That means that I don’t take myself too seriously, and I don’t spend all my time focusing on what’s wrong in my world.
Just a side note here …
I know that we have seasons in life where feeling happy is just a far-away dream. I get that.
And if you’re in that extraordinarily tough season, know that God still has good things planned for you. Happiness will be back. Don’t take this note as a “everything is fine and I’m going to be happy now” suggestion. That’s just plain silly.
We are promised good things in life. By a God who keeps His promises. Let’s watch for those good things – those moments or people, that scenery or clever social media post, or an event or conversation that makes our heart smile a bit.
Let’s watch for the happy moment. Notice it. Create it.
And perhaps make some radical changes to our hair color. Just because.
P.S. If you are planning a women’s retreat, banquet, luncheon, or celebration, I would love to be considered as your speaker! We will dig into God’s Word, laugh, and you will leave refreshed and encouraged. Click here for a guide highlighting what you can expect from me before, during, and after your event! Oh, this would be so fun!
